3 Qualities More Important Than IQ for Success克制,纪律和毅力是体育rsonal qualities we can develop, whether we believe we were born with them or not.
ByThai Nguyen•
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When it comes to what determines success, many would put their money a high intelligence quotient. There's no doubt IQ plays a role in academic achievement, but acceptance into an Ivy League school far from guarantees professional success.
CEOs who've recruited the brightest graduates become puzzled at the bell curve of performance—after all, shouldn't all geniuses perform at an elite level?
Not surprisingly, researchers have found that IQ plays a far less significant role in success. It's these three qualities, under the radar and often overlooked, that make all the difference when it comes to success.
1. Self regulation.
We're often the biggest stumbling blocks to our own success. The ability to manage your behaviors consistently reflects your values and goals. The famousStanford"Marshmallow" study placed treats in front of children and told them they could eat it now, or wait and be rewarded with a double amount. After tracing the lives of the children into adulthood, they found those who resisted performed better academically, earned higher salaries and were less prone to obesity.
Self-regulation is like a muscle. It can be depleted, but it can also be exercised and strengthened. Practice saying "no'' to yourself by refusing the desire to get on social media, eating all the food on your plate but not seconds or waking up ten minutes earlier in the morning.
Make daily practices of doing something difficult, and just like the children with the marshmallows, habits in one area of life are contagious.
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2. Empathy.
Empathy is the ability to put yourself on exactly the same page with your customer or whoever you're engaging with.
When different views cause conflict, empathy allows for integration and reducing tension. It's the difference between "I think you're wrong" and "I understand where you're coming from." The former is likely to put the person on the defensive, while the latter invites a more constructive and open-ended engagement that creates rapport, the magic ingredient in sales.
No one lacks the potential for greater empathy. The discovery of "mirror neurons" showed the biological ability weallpossess to empathize. Watch someone face-plant and you'll recoil and "feel" their pain.
Emotional awareness is key. Begin to observe your feelings, label them as they arise, describe your experience as if you're interviewing yourself. As you master and become more familiar with your inner-self, you'll start to better perceive and intuit what someone else is going through.
Most importantly, empathy shows that you care. Keep the words of Teddy Roosevelt in mind, "People don't care how much you know until they know how much you care."
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3. Grit.
PsychologistAngela Duckworthstudied successful individuals at West Point Military Academy, the National Spelling Bee, rookie teachers in tough neighborhoods and salespeople in private companies. She noted the common factor wasn't social intelligence, good looks, physical health and or I.Q. It was grit.
While self-regulation deals with temptations, grit is resilience when faced with adversity either physically and psychologically. It's a trait synonymous with the "Growth Mindset."
When wrestling with a problem, a fixed mindset says we're failing and not cut-out for the job. A growth mindset believes we're getting closer to the solution and gaining mastery. ProfessorCarol Dweck's research shows that the brain develops new neural pathways if it preservers through a problem rather than throwing in the towel.
The culprit is a psychological highjacking conditioned by the popular notion that talent is inherent and immutable, rather than malleable. Adopting a growth mindset is more than positive thinking. The cognitive shift reduces the body'sstress response. A less stressed person will process adversity more efficiently, and be able to iterate instead of hitting a brick wall.
Cultivating grit takes patience and consistency. But it can be developed from simple daily exercises such as learning to juggle, or taking a cold shower. It's all about applying the compound effect in finance to all areas of life.
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